The Point I Came To

Hey peopleee out there! 

Mau sharing aja nih, bahwa emang bener buat dapetin suatu pemahaman itu butuh diri sendiri yang ngalamin dulu. Bener ga sih? Contohnya nih, temen kita lagi kehilangan uang, kita cuma bisa bilang sabar ya, dan hal-hal lain. Meanwhile in the other hands, ketika kita sendiri yang ngerasain kehilangan, beh, bingung, sedih, dll gak bakalan mempan dah omongan nasihat tuh, tadi dari situ kita bisa gain something new, be careful of what's yours. betul tidak? 

nasihatin orang mah gampang, yang sulit itu saat kita ngerasain apa yang dirasain orang itu tadi. So, don't ever think that your friends problem is easier than yours, just be patient cause it would take a little bit time to heal everything. well, sebenernya ini juga lagi menyadarkan diri sendiri sih. 

So, lately, i've been stuck in a romance problem and it was got me like, damn. i want to just stop go around and lookin' for a boy instead. and yes. i was cheated on by someone i thought who was good enough for me. perhaps he was good. but was not is. so, yesh. he broke my heart. too many times. i once ever heard, people said, if  a relation gives you so much happiness, keep go on. but it doesn't, don't give them any reason to stay. whileeeeeeeeee, i came a point where i realize i deserve better than him. Because for a good man, one woman is enough. i don't even know why he does that. but, i also realize not everyone in my life was meant to stay. that's right. people actually come and go, but the best one will stay. 

here, i am today. writing such a bullshit post, in order to make people out there realize that, don't ever put your happiness on other people. be that happiness. if nobody can be your sunshine, be that sunshine, girl. You're too good to be a second plan or back up plan. come on. you are more than that. 

Since i knew that i deserve better, i never think again about him and my life will keep flow as it usually does. 

be sad, but don't take it too long of time. don't be mad. make him insane of losing you. 

#GIRLSPOWER 

So, if there boys hurt you, 

say to them: 

Well, we won't cry for you, boys, our mascaras are too expensive. !